Time Will Tell :)

Hey Y'all !!

Take a look at this picture and tell me what you see? When I take a look at this picture a few words come to mind. Words like : Love, Commitment, Loyalty, Self Love, Mountains, Valleys, Friendship and did I say Love? Lol

We all say we want the relationship like Jay and Bey , but are we willing to be the person it takes to reach these heights with someone?

Honestly, most of us are not. We are on the first flight out as soon as something doesn't go our way. Then the worst part is we don't even communicate the problem. How can we expect to grow with someone and we can not communicate? Talk about how you feel. No matter how difficult it may be, this is a good practice for self . You should check in with how you feel and how to move forward with your power.

1. Learn Self- Who are you? Are you happy with yourself and the reality you are living in? What is your mindset on love? How do you view relationships? Do you want to be saved? Do you want to be a savior? You can only save yourself, others have to make the choice based on an influence by you to save themselves as well. Remember, no one else is responsible for your happiness or completeness but you! You are your best friend.

2. You are what you attract- Be who you want a partner to be. Be honest, be trustworthy, be open, be loving, be caring, be peace. What do you bring to the table? Is it a reflection of what you expect to be at the table next to you? The people who stick around in your life are often a reflection of you, in their higher and lower states. Be mindful of who is in your face and what you see in them that you want to change in yourself.

3. Make Your Own Story- Yes ! You can create your story with your relationship. I know, I know Bey and Jay is such an amazing love story, however no love story is the same. Trying to live someone else's story is not being present in your own which is the greatest love story of all times. My love story is amazing and y'all I haven't even started living it yet! But its locked in my mind and belief system that it will be life generating and beautiful .

I leave you all with this, I say this from experience, love yourself or no one else will. People will hurt you, take advantage of , and leave you with exactly what you started with...SELF. Cultivate SELF and love SELF above all else.

Love Y'all !